![]() ![]() But you care about spending your time the way it makes you feel good. Some people enjoy the attention and some people are born to be leaders. Some people recharge themselves when they spend time around people. It’s just you need to spend time with yourself more than you do with them. Sensory overload happens to you more than it happens to people around you, simply because you are more sensitive than let’s say, your extrovert friends.Ĭrowds, noises, people and stress affect you more than they affect people around you which is why you need more alone time than they do. When you need alone time more than others ![]() You do care, but you’re too stressed out about the right way to show it that in the end, you just don’t know how to do it. ![]() And when you’re at class, you’re already daydreaming about a better future or a simpler past. That causes you to stop listening and get lost in your efforts instead. But while they’re talking, you’re trying your best to be the best version of yourself. Getting lost in your thoughts all the timeįor you, it’s so easy to lose focus that sometimes people tend to think you don’t care about something they’re talking about. You’re simply not feeling like leaving your home. You’re not trying to be a drama queen or get someone’s attention. Maybe you were feeling fine when you made them, but when the day actually came around, you realized that you needed some alone time to gain your composure. It’s hard to understand that when someone makes plans they can’t follow through. You prefer to keep it simple and yet meaningful. Because people drain your energy so easily, it’s completely natural that you want to spend your time with people who actually make you feel good.Īnd this is the only reason why you’re not a huge fan of big parties, dinners or hangouts. You don’t care about how many friends you have, as long as they are real and true ones. Being incredibly selective about with whom you spend your time And while you’re at the party, you’re usually talking to one person you know and you’re comfortable with, while longing for your bed and your place where you can be yourself. They drain your energy in a way your extroverted friends would never understand. You’re just tired of talking to people or being around them. But the thing is, you are not sleepy or exhausted. You are usually the first one to leave a party, saying that you are so tired. They create the perfect background noise for you because that way, you don’t feel lonely, but you don’t feel the pressure of making small talk either.Īnd plus, you simply love to observe people and come up with stories in your head, and this is a perfect way for you to do it. There is something about being surrounded by people but not having to actually talk with them. Everything you said seems stupid or completely blunt and the whole experience is just so stressful for you that you try to avoid it any way you can. When you are talking over the phone, you can’t see the way the other person reacted. Over texts, you are witty, funny and incredibly empathetic, but when you are talking over the phone, stress gets the best of you, so you start stuttering and talking nonsense, while wishing you never answered that phone call in the first place. They don’t understand that you prefer to text because that way, you have time to understand how the other person feels and you have time to think of the best answer. ![]()
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